I
have discovered another principle of physics.
As the body grows older gravity increases. When the body is young, its
parts stay in place, firm and fit. But as age sets in the parts start to slide
-- downward. And the energy expended to lift the body from a sedentary position
increases.
I
love to watch children skipping and dancing down the sidewalk. My grandchildren, 8, 6 and 2, run wherever
they go, and climb anything they can find.
I enjoy the grace of teenagers gliding effortlessly on skateboards,
sprinting after a fly ball, leaping to make the catch. And I think to myself, once upon a time, that
was me!
There
are different perspectives about growing old.
“Grow old along with me” wrote Robert Browning, “ the best is yet to be,
the last of life, for which the first was made:
our times are in His hand.”
Thomas
Jefferson was not so kind. “First
one faculty withdrawn and then another, sight, hearing, memory, affection and
friends, filched one by one, till we are left among strangers, the mere
monuments of time, facts, and specimens of antiquity for the observation of the
curious.”
I
have heard others say, “There is nothing good about growing old.” And, “growing old isn’t for wimps.” I met with some of my childhood friends last
week. Four of us were together in Mrs. Pritchett’s
first grade class. That was seventy
years ago! We know a little bit about aging.
When
Billy Graham was in his nineties he wrote, “I can’t truthfully say that I have liked growing older. At
times I wish I could still do everything I once did – but I can’t. I wish I
didn’t have to face the infirmities and uncertainties that seem to be part of
this stage of life – but I do.” He asks the important question, “Is old age
only a cruel burden that grows heavier and heavier as the years go by, with
nothing to look forward to but death? Or can it be something more?”
In his book, Nearing Home,
Graham wrote, “Growing old has been the greatest surprise of my life. …
When granted many years of life, growing old in age is natural, but growing old
in grace is a choice. Growing older with grace is possible to all who set their
hearts and minds on the Giver of grace, the Lord Jesus Christ.”
My wife and I celebrated our fiftieth anniversary five years ago
. I wrote a book about our journey and
published it on Amazon, Our Story. It highlights our life together for more than
half a century with joy, laughter, celebration, sorrow, loss and
disappointment. The longer we live, the
deeper we discover life’s textures. The colors become more vibrant, and the
blessings and goodness of God, more clear.
Along with David, I can say, “I will utter dark sayings of old
which we have heard and known, and our fathers have told us. We will not conceal them from their children,
but tell to the generation to come the praises of the Lord, and His strength
and His wondrous works which He has done!” (Psalm 78:2-4).