When we think about being religious, we conjure up different
images. Some imagine ascetic monks
living in desert regions, emaciated and starving, bleary eyed and anti-social. Others
picture nuns wearing habits and whispering prayers as they finger their
rosaries. Still others imagine TV evangelists
with slicked-back hair. When Jesus
wanted to forge an image in the minds of his followers, he chose a child and
stood him in their midst and said, “Unless you change and become as children,
you shall not enter the Kingdom of Heaven,” (Matthew 18:2-3). Why would he do
this?
Jesus left the answer to that question up to us. We can all speculate about the lesson he
wanted to teach by choosing a child.
Here are a few characteristics that stand out to me when I think about children
and the reason he chose a child to illustrate the nature of Kingdom
people.
Children live in the moment.
They are not worried about the future.
They are not burdened with guilt about the past. Watch children playing
on a playground. They have little
awareness of time. They wear no watches.
Children become friends fast. Most children have not learned
to be hesitant and shy. They greet one
another as if they have already met.
“Want to play?” And the game is
on.
Children laugh. I love listening to children on the school
playground and in the park. Anywhere children gather, the air is filled with
laughter. It is their nature to laugh.
Children do not know prejudice. I’m not sure when we learn racial and
cultural prejudice, but young children readily accept each other as equals
regardless of skin color or clothing. If
they notice a difference between them, they do not hesitate to ask about
it. And, once the difference is
recognized and addressed, they move on.
Children trust. With
their father’s extended arms and a little encouragement, they will fling their
bodies into open space fully confident they will be caught.
Children are awed by God’s creation. They are mesmerized by grasshoppers,
caterpillars, butterflies, and flowers. They stop and take time to watch an ant
wrestle a crumb of bread across the ground.
They notice the spots on a ladybug.
Children have great imaginations. Give a child a sandbox, a
stick, or a can and they can construct unbelievable creations. I watched
children recently playing in the sand.
They were digging a hole. When I
asked what it was, they stared at me with a puzzled look, as if I was the only
one who did not recognize the obvious.
They patiently explained that it was a grasshopper sanctuary.
This list isn’t complete. You can add others, I am sure. Somewhere within us all is buried the child
we once were. Perhaps if we could
re-connect with the child-like simplicity within us, we might take our first
steps toward becoming Kingdom citizens as Jesus described it.
After spending 10 hours with children today, much of it with 15 children in the church nursery from 9 mos through 3rd grade ages and the rest with my 6 grandchildren ages1,3,5,6,8 and 10, I ca, heartily concur. Ah the heart of a child!
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