When I listen to myself pray, and when I listen to others
pray, it seems that most of what we say to God revolves around what we want. Sometimes our lists are heart-rending. We desire healing from a deadly disease,
comfort from the loss of someone we love, a job and a paycheck. More often, our
prayers are day-to-day: a passing grade on the exam, strength to get through
another day at work, safe travel. Sometimes
they are trivial: a victory on the football
field, our favorite team in the playoffs. Most of our prayers are filled with the things
that we want God to do for us.
But sometimes I wonder, what does God want?
Maybe he wants a great cathedral constructed in His honor, a
building that rises out of the concrete and towers over the city with majestic
spires and stained glass windows. Perhaps he wants a more modern structure that
resembles the headquarters of a major corporation or a shopping mall. Something
designed to make a statement to the world that God is important.
Maybe He wants music. Perhaps God wants classical music like
Ode to Joy, or Jesu Joy of Man’s Desiring.
Or, maybe he prefers contemporary music: amplifiers, electric guitars,
drums, drums and more drums. Maybe God
prefers Blue Grass or Country. Who
knows? I sometimes wonder what we will
sing in Heaven.
Maybe God likes His own sounds: thunder in the heavens, the
whisper of wind in the wings of a bird, echoes in a canyon, a babbling brook or
the powerful rush of Niagara Falls.
The Bible gives some pretty good clues about what God
wants.
In Isaiah’s day, God made it clear that He was fed up with efforts
to impress Him with religious behavior. He said, “When you
come to appear before Me, who requires of you this trampling of My courts?
Bring your worthless offerings no longer. … Cease to do evil, learn
to do good; seek justice, reprove the ruthless, defend the orphan, plead for
the widow. Come now, and let us reason
together,” Says the Lord, “Though your sins are as
scarlet, they will be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson,
they will be like wool.” (Isaiah 1:12-18).
When I think about how I feel as a parent, this makes
perfect sense. I am happiest as a parent
when my children are together, when I hear them laughing, when they enjoy one
another and go out of their way to help each other. Of course, I want them to love me. But somehow I feel like they love me best
when they are loving each other.
Many people assume that God measures our love for Him by how
religious we become. But John set us
straight when he wrote, “One who does not love his brother, whom he has seen,
cannot love God whom he has not seen.” (1
John 4:20).
The bottom line is this: God wants us to get along with each other. He wants people to be kind to each other, to
do good things and help each other. Jesus said,
“If you love me you will keep my commandments. … This is my commandment. That you love one another, just as I have
loved you.” (John 14:15; 15:12).
Thank you for this reminder, that it’s not about us and all about him.
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